Bacon I don't think people in general are good for the relationship thing. Have you ever seen the type of guy who really argues his points strongly, but only when really warranted, and ends up striking everyone down for his super powerful smite? It's fun for that guy, but think of this guy trying to have a really serious relationship. He'll end up over asserting his dominance and shy down his woman, and this isn't what he asked for. However, if he gets rid of the idea that he wants a real relationship and instead determines for pleasure, he can essentially win guaranteed. In the end, it is all up to you what you want. Analyze your personality, and envision if it can cause some relationship angst between you and yer partner. If it can, maybe you wanna just go for the detached route and basically lay-and-leave. Or lay-and-have-leave. If you're just too cool of a dude to make people feel bad then do a relationship. Either way will be good for you, but honestly a real relationship will be best in the long run, even if it's just a recipe for disaster. You learn a shitload from those things.