Like: "my car muffler is broken. Nobody seems to really mind...but I mind. It's loud and it annoys me. But I'm too lazy to fix it...but I swear if anyone says anything about my muffler I'll throw a fit."
Like do you want to fix it or not? If you don't, stop obligating other people to social platitudes. If you do...well, FIX IT.
This thread has become a great example of itself.