What about Heavy Rain?
Ahahahahahaha. It's not like they literally added a female character to the game at the last moment solely to give her a shower scene and attempted rape scene (IIRC).
Oh. Wait. They did. That's exactly what they fucking did. Heavy Rain is Deadly Premonition with none of the wit, charm, or cleverness.
There are well written games that handle shit well. I disagree with Clock. None of them are by Bioware, though.
The Witcher 2? Nowait... at the beginning of the game, I was having sex in a tent with a sorceress, and later on banged a couple wimmin in a brothel. Then an elf too. But a brothel makes sense, right? Cuz like... that's what they're made for.
Edit: Bit off topic here. Anyways. So right now it's 98% ending sucks, and 2% meh.
StarCon2, Chrono Trigger, FFIII, Phantasia, Earthbound, Secret of Mana, Super Mario RPG
I think it's fine at certain points, and there aren't a lot of those certain points in ME1. Other times it's just outright getting your ass rushed into a corner and killed in one punch by some Asari/Geth/Merc/Security personell/Rachni/whoever else that's dangerous. It just really feels too fast paced sometimes for how the gameplay is, and trips over it's own feet. ME2 got it right, though at the cost of sacrificing a lot of the RPG aspects from ME1. ME3 got what ME2 got wrong in gameplay, and brought back a bit of ME1 to boot.